Dear Felicia, My best friend and I have been having problems with our friendship and now were no longer best friends anymore. She won’t even talk to me… I really miss her. How do I fix it?

If you two were that close, try to talk to her. She can’t just cut you out of her life if you really meant that much to her.

Explain your feelings to her. Tell her that it is upsetting you that you two are no longer close and that you miss her.

Always tell someone your true feelings. Don’t lie to them to make them feel better, that always just makes it worse, and it hurts more.

Explain to her that maybe you have a lot going on and that you are sorry that you forgot about her.

If she is mad at you and doesn’t wanna talk to you, accept it, give her some space and just inform her that you will still always be there for her to trust you if she needs you.

Make her feel better. A simple ‘Good morning’ or ‘Good night’ text can truly make someone’s day 10 times better.

Remind her. Help her remember some of the fun times you two used to have, but don’t live in the past.

Try to give her some space but not too much where she disappears. That is never fun and it’s difficult to get them back into your life.

I hope this helps. ☻

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